Imperctions Inside Perfection
my first menstruation -final
coss💖
the view of world may have become wide,we may
have became able to enlighten society with education but,
the thing we choose to be or stay as be is always questioned no matter than from which we gender belong,
not always but yeah at some point of time we have been through this,
the struggles to create your own existence,denying to walk
on thin ropes created by your society but for some people this rope is so thin that they stumble upon it and fall down,
but when you fall see this a chance to create your own path , never give hope on yourself😊
coss💖
so now without much ado continue with our previous story
my first menstruation-final
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i came back that day from my school like usual and changed my uniform into a cosy and comfortable one
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In was feeling unwell since morning for some reason,I felt something wet on my underwear
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I went in washroom to check for it,I was frightened to see stain of blood on it
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I went straight to my bed and started thinking weird things like I may be ill,seeing my condition my paternal aunt
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asked me "what is it?why you are worried? " in told her everything while sobbing
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she immediately said me to go in washroom to take bath and clean wash my clothes by myself
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without giving me explanation she exclaimed-go fast and don't touch anything i (aunt)will give you your clothes
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that day I learned many things about changes in my own body and also more about many more restrictions which came as gift along this boon
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my body didn't felt like mine,it always pained tremendously (back pain )on usually 1st or 2nd day of menstruation also so hectic to change those sanitary napkins
coss💖
I know it pain a lot 😢
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yes as it wasn't enough,those extra rules that I had to follow during those days
1. Have to wash my own clothes(it was tough cause usually my mum used to do them for me)
2.have to wake up daily at dawn and take bath even if it's freezing cold outside
3.not to enter kitchen(strictly)
4.have to wash my own dishes.
5.not to move around,not allowed to take walk on outside nor taking part in any vigorous actuvity.....etc
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every girl suffers from this period and have to be extra careful as we don't stain cloths or people will consider is shameless for this
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in early days I usually got stain on my clothes and my big mum
big mum
dont have any etiquettes,staining your clothes like it,what if any man will see,feel some shame you are woman now
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I was so angry at her words and cried "why I am subjected to go through this cause I am a girl?","why so pain and restrictions for this transformation ?"
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"why considered impure cause my blood flows out?,isn't it same blood which keep us alive ",isn't it same when someone bleeds when we get injury"?
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thousands of questions flooded my mind but none was answered as there was none solid reason behind except some myths THAT-IT'S OUR RULES AND WE HAVE TO FOLLOW IT 😊
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all answers came to hault when they said -shut up! you are girl,don't ask such questions,what men will think if they listen you ??
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so that's how it all started and I am quite use to this now but my answers😧.....I will continue to find my answers to my questions
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tell me anyone here -is our God so low that if a girl in menstruation touches their statues or offer them food being made by them makes them impure?
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I asked this question cause we (girls)are told to abstain going to any worship places even shouldn't cast our shadows over those sacred places
coss💖
I too have questions but let's conclude our story first ?
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so my imperfection is being I AM A GIRL and I become impure during menstruation and when I dare to question them for being treated like that then I am subjected as shameless ans ethic less girl😊
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but you know what cos I don't care about this anymore and will make my own rules and yeah I don't this care about this reasonless society to give me any tag😊
coss💖
yeah! that's may girl bruh !💋💋
coss💖
so here I want to include my one more question here -
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the blood which considered to be impure is only one which provide nutrients and harbour and nourishes a new life so why this blood is social stigma of society only? why not all the new born too consider same as my blood when they clearly born out from same place ??
coss💖
God has only given us (girls)privilege to bring any life on this earth no else can bring them but just us, even god took birth from this womb and place so why they are considered so pure and why they didn't get dirty when they were born out of same blood???
coss💖
if you have ans please considering answering me in comments,it's reality very gender which comes out of this place is not treated same 😊
Comments
GOODBYE 🦋
Girls!! u're strong and u're better than anyone else.. u don't need to be sad coz of such people around you!! who r those people to tell u what to do?? Don't listen to society , they only talk craps and judge u for anything..
also.. nothing is wrong with periods , if u live around such people the. just try bringing a change , If u can't ; wait for a day to move out and create ur own world and life without such people ❣️.
Allways remember u're beautiful and u're worth everything ❤️💜
2021-04-05
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✨✰𝑨𝑹𝑰𝑨✰✨
Come again with another heart touching story ♥️😘😘💕
2021-03-05
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Stephen
amazing author ♥️
2021-03-05
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