Stop play become a victim in life

I remember when I was sit inside the taxi  a few years ago , I saw a woman on the street got anger to one white man . She shouted at him , cried , tried to hit the man and they had argued.

I tried to open my window just a little just want to know what they argued about.

A woman still dressed like from party / club last night with messy make up and messy hairs : 

" U **** me and just wanna leave me here ? **** you. Do you think I am a ********** ? "

The white man laughed at her and answered her : " U are slut . What do you want ? " 

The woman shouts even harder .She couldn't control her self and looks like no have shame anymore in front of a lot of people on the street with a lot of cars and bikes " **** you . You played me . 

You hurt me . You used me . I don't accept this !!! "

Then the white man just left her with his bike , put his middle finger to her and laughed 

I also heard some stories from some woman who always blamed the man . 

" They just wanna **** and bye . I am not the kind of woman who want to do one night stand . Im not **** arround woman etc  "

Hpw many we can see on first meeting , some of women dressed very sexy / sensual with  full make up  and go to the man place after from  club / bar / dinner / hangout  to continue watch movie / have a beer / continue have a talk or swim in the middle of the night ( hahaha ) 

Lately , I read news about two white women who felt as a victims of sexual harassment by one Brazilian man in Bali .

After I finish reading all  , I have my own opinion . 

In this story I can't blame the man because they met at place who do dance with seductive movements . 

After the show finished , one of the woman had a drink and have a light topic to talk with him  and after she agreed to follow the man to his place because she said  she felt hungry of food . 

After arrived at the man place , the man took a shower and went out from the bathroom with towel  . They started to play touch and kiss each others until sex happened between them . 

At the end the this woman felt guilty , sad , angry , depressed etc etc etc because finally she said , she has official boyfriend already . 

In another story , other woman also  finally felt guilty ,  worried to get pregnant because when she had sex with this man , this man didn't wear any condom , felt sad , angry etc etc etc 

Well

We can't blame this man . This is not a rape . They are 2 adults in one room . 

Met at sensual dance place . They talk . They drink . They agreed to go home together to the man place Nobody push each others with knife or gun lol .

I am woman too . I had a lot of stories in my life with bad and good stories  .

I called it s  a lesson of life not a mistake to teach us to not do it again and again on the same path  . 

I lost my marriage 2x . I never had serious ex boyfriend who wanna marry me . Etc etc etc

For all woman , young ladies , young girls around the world  

I just wanna say , respect your self . 

Start from  the way how you look , talk and behave . Have value for your self  . Have boundaries . 

Don't open the door . Don't start to play the fire or get involve with the game of the stranger man / even a  man that you know already  if you don't want to get burn . 

Have quality in your self and you will attract a serious man and quality man who want to come to your life 

But if you avoid all of these things , take the risk and don't complain and stop play as a victim from the man

NAMASTE . 

STAY BLESS IN HEART AND MIND AND CONTINUE TO DO KINDNESS , GOOD DARMA AND GOOD KARMA  TO ALL CREATION OF GOD 

( HUMAN BEING , ANIMAL AND NATURE ) . SAVE LOST SOUL . 

SAVE ANIMAL AND NATURE LIVES . NAMASTE

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