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i hope you are doing fine in this covid situation....
please stay safe amd stay healthy!!
Author
today, i was so disheartened by one of my neighbour......
i really want to share my thoughts to see if i am thinking right or not....
if not please correct me.....
so.....
she is an elder to me....her age is 25 years!! At first, they lived in a rural area....so the whole family came to our neighbourhood when that sister was in class 6!! she was the only child of their middle-class family!!!
her father wanted her to become an engineer.....as she was quite good in academics. So, they sent her to study in a private college outside West Bengal(i don't know exactly which state or which college).......i heard the admission was too high for a middle-class man to afford....but still they did, she was admitted there.....
but after two years, she came back home with a man beside her saying
"Dad, i don't wanna study....i married my love!!"
my question is, if you already knew in your heart that you don't want to study.....what was the reason of wasting so much money of her parents and the hope that their daughter would become an engineer all went into trash!!!
Author
for this reason, i wrote a short passage on the reply of this incident stating my opinion towards it....
See author I think love is important but money is more important. Not any money, your hard earned money. And it's not money but being independent. Like now what if her loved one cheats, her life will be difficult and I know it will be difficult because my friend's dad cheated and even though her mom knows it she should live with him as there is nowhere to go. So love can cheat but money can't and spending your own money without asking for permission is better than being in a relationship and depending on your husband. So in my opinion she should have studied not for her parents for herself. And don't think I am obsessed with money. Now you can leave without a partner but not money and if I met someone who says "girls should stop working and learn being a good wife" like my uncles or elderly as I am born in a family where they think woman should stay at home and men should work pisses me. And the girl is going to regret a lot.
2021-06-05
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livinglife
first of all the story is very good... thanku for sharing with us...i will wait for second season ❣️😊 u re quite right about the incident...i also believe the same..
Comments
Yuna
Wow you are also from West Bengal
2021-10-20
1
Serena Hiwatari
See author I think love is important but money is more important. Not any money, your hard earned money. And it's not money but being independent. Like now what if her loved one cheats, her life will be difficult and I know it will be difficult because my friend's dad cheated and even though her mom knows it she should live with him as there is nowhere to go. So love can cheat but money can't and spending your own money without asking for permission is better than being in a relationship and depending on your husband. So in my opinion she should have studied not for her parents for herself. And don't think I am obsessed with money. Now you can leave without a partner but not money and if I met someone who says "girls should stop working and learn being a good wife" like my uncles or elderly as I am born in a family where they think woman should stay at home and men should work pisses me. And the girl is going to regret a lot.
2021-06-05
2
livinglife
first of all the story is very good... thanku for sharing with us...i will wait for second season ❣️😊
u re quite right about the incident...i also believe the same..
2021-06-02
1