Very often, I find myself saying, it's not the same everyday in terms of difficulty. Was it supposed to be the same? Was it supposed to be monotonous? If so then life would have been dull and most people would have been bored from solving the same problem. By making the same mistake, it means the first time or other time didn't teach you any valuable lesson. Hence you would repeat it until you're satisfied. But is that what you really want? I don't think so. Life is beautiful as it has its ups and downs. Sometime you got yourself thinking, I would give it my all to be that person. Oh how I wish I was like that person but personally do you know what happens in that said person's life? What chaos or mess that person is in? How much that person wants to escape from it's own cage. We would never know. That's one of the main reason why I would try to be kind as you never know what someone is happening in someone's life and what kind of action can help them mentally or physically. A simple smile can make someone reconsider their choices. A simple compliment can make someone's day. A simple how are you, can make someone feel cared for. A simple I missed you can make someone feel worthy. A simple text can make someone feel loved. Just a simple act can encourage someone to continue living and beat whatever difficulty they'll come across. However, some day you would think why didn't I love this little life? Why didn't I use that time appreciating things. Lost time can't came back but surely you can live the present. By dwelling on the past, won't bring any good. Vent your anger with your best friends, remove all the hate you have in your heart and find peace, It will help you. I know some people said and done hurtful things. But do you think that person is feeling remorse or guilty? If yes, they would have already apologies and make it up to you. And if they didn't care why should you care about such useless thing? The best thing that you can do is move on and love yourself. By having self respect and self love, it makes people to think twice before they say something. They won't dare to insult you if you have confidence. Of course, now you shouldn't be overconfident as that also don't bring any good. When you're having a great day you would think of those memories and say "Sure there were obstacles and problems that made me broken but maybe it was for the best" Maybe that helped you become more brave. Maybe that same reason pushed you to be successful. Maybe it was a sign and it helped you overcome your fear. Life can be unpredictable but we have to just go with the flow. Bad day? Try to see it in a positive light. Such as, coffee fell on your clothes and you had to run back home to change? Think of it, that god save you from something worst. Forgot your wallet at home? Now you have no money to buy food? Maybe that food would have gotten you food poisoned. You felt pity and gave someone homeless your remaining money? You were send by god to help that person. Most of the time, we are annoyed at why is this always happening to me, but we never truly ask whether, has this happened for the best? So with this note, I would like to say, appreciate the time and spend it with your loved ones. Bad day? Speak with your favourite person softly, and you'll see how your bad mood will switch to a good one without you realizing. Love y'all, see you until next time. From tae gonna take all ur Gucci<3
