Love should feel natural. It should flow effortlessly, bringing warmth and comfort. When love is real, it doesn't need to be pushed, begged for, or forced into place. It just exists, filling the space between two people with understanding, care, and happiness.
Forcing love is like trying to hold onto something that was never meant to stay. It drains energy, creates tension, and leaves behind nothing but disappointment. When we try too hard to make someone love us, we ignore the truth. We deserve love that comes willingly, not love that feels like a struggle
If love feels forced, it is probably not love at all. It is attachment, fear of being alone, or the idea of what love should be. Love should never feel like a burden or an obligation. It should lift us aijinzen up, not weigh us down.
Real love is effortless. It is the kind that makes us feel safe, the kind that does not make us question our worth. It is not about proving anything or chasing someone who does not care. It is about mutual effort, mutual respect, and the natural connection that grows without force.
So let's stop chasing what is not meant for us and make space for love that flows naturally.
- By unknown
