So there was a girl and boy who were a couple before. They met in one app and they got to add each other on their socials too. Their relationship was just working fine. This girl is such a clingy person, she spammed messages about her daily lives for him, and the boy replies to her every message. After a few weeks of their relationship, the boy informed her that he'll be gone for 3 years because of study and work stuff, and the girl responds that she can wait for him, she knows that she will long for the boy but she was desperate, it was her first online bf anyway. So the boy wasn't gone as she thought but he started to respond to her messages every three days or a week but the girl just kept messaging him. There was a time when the girl messaged her bf that replied to her past 3 days messages, the girl checked the app where they first met and she stalked her bf profile, she saw that the numbers of his following changed but she let it slide, but she kept checking her bf profile everyday and the following kept changing. Then she realized that her bf only responded to her every 3 days cuz he said he doesn't have that much time to reply to her but he does have time to read manga/novel or to follow other people and most of them are girls? While the girl became inactive in that app cuz she was focused on her said bf and she only wants to waste her time with him cuz the girl used to love him so much but then the girl wasn't one of his priorities and she felt neglected. She wanted to confront the boy and wanted to answer every question going through her mind but she turned it into a blind eye, she kept herself positive. After that the girl still continued with their relationship cuz she still has hope that their relationship will still work in the end but she was naive. Their relationship continued like that for 2 months. Until the girl's 16th birthday, she received a message from the boy with happy birthday greetings and wishes. The girl immediately responds to the boy's unseen messages because she hopes that the boy will respond to her replies and he did, the girl was so happy that she could have a bit long conversation with her bf even just in a day of her birthday but when the girl replied again she didn't receive any response to the boy and she waited for an hour until the celebration of her birthday begun, that maybe the boy will respond again but he didn't. She was sad and she felt pierced on her heart but she waited for the boy's response. After three days or a week i guess, the boy responded but the girl at that time felt that she was tired of it already. She really wanted to read the unseen messages of the boy but she decided not to reply to him that maybe the boy might wonder why she didn't text back and try to reach out to her again. Three days and weeks have passed and the boy didn't message again. It made the girl tear but she never opened the messages and said that it was over. After 3 months the messages of the boy disappeared. She deleted her socials that reminds her about the boy and she continues to live her life.
After 3 years the girl met a very nice guy, he's not perfect but she really does like him. She never ever thought that she didn't consider him as her bf but it was the opposite of what he's feeling. Honestly, the girl quite changed. She doesn't send spam messages again cuz she's afraid that the boy might think she's desperate and too clingy but her spam messages actually what the boy really wants... She wasn't that so sweet to text anymore like before cuz she's afraid and cautious about revealing her emotions but her sweet text also what the boy really wants... She doesn't know how and when to start again and searching for the right path to reconnect. Aside from that, the boy most wants is to receive from her a voice mail and a beautiful picture of her. She's still hesitant to send yet. She knows that she shouldn't feel hesitant because it's her bf but she can't help it. The girl and the boy had already called, sent voicemail, and sent pictures but it happened only once or twice. She told him that she will send him that soon but not now and she's hoping that the boy will understand her and consider her feelings.
