We also need to understand that our lover is not everything,nor is it the ultimate goal of our lives.The ultimate goal of every person's life is happiness.If you place too much emphasis on results,it will be difficult for you to feel happy.
A sustainable relationship needs balance from both sides.Effort needs to be cultivated from both sides,at least turn on the signals for the opponent to recognize.
Confessing love is not asking for a relationship,it is a way to express your true feelings.It's that simple,how do you feel now?Do something so you don't have to regret the words "if only" later!