You are a girl! A girl should not go out alone, a girl should not laugh louder, a girl should talk slowly, a girl should not take any decisions by her own. Why??, why a these all things are only for girls why not for boys?

When a girl wants to go out,they always hear that, ‘You are a girl,you should not roam outside like boys’ . When she says that she wants to join a sports academy or Gym, they always hear,Why? Why you want to join a academy or gym?,no need to join in such things, you listen to us, so many boys will come there, how you will go there?

A girl don’t have any right to take her own decision,whenever she tells something,she has always heard that,you don’t know how the world is,you don’t know how the people are. Oh my god,I wonder that,if the parents will allow a girl to go out and explore then only she will know how the world is! How the people of this world are. But here. A girl should be in home, you go to school/college study and comeback to home. You should choose the career which we like.But why? A girl cannot choose her own careered by herself, why she can’t live her life in her own terms??

A girl should always listen to her parents advice,a good girl will never go against here parents decision,no matter how painful the decision is taken by them. If she is getting less marks in her academics,she is blamed for it,while if a boy takes less marks he is consoled and is said that,”no matter my son,you can do it next time”. While when a girl takes less marks she is said that, What’s wrong with you? Why are you getting so less marks,if you keep doing like this,we will restrict you from school.

Parents will never know how much their child suffers when he/she hears something like this.

If she does any mistake,no matter if it’s small or big,she is said that,it was better if she wasn’t born,she is such a pathetic girl I have ever seen,see that girl,learn something from your cousin,she is such a perfect example of being a girl.

Parents will never we know how much these words hurt from inside.These words run like a mouse in their mind.They start overthinking,they can’t sleep at night.Sometimes it becomes unruly for a girl to stopp herself for thinking much.Many a times she tries very harder in anticipation of making her parents feel so proud on her work,but she ever fails though the results are better but parents never feel happy as they want still more, they are never satisfied with it. Many a times a girl feels like her luck might desert her.It’s very limpid when her parents never cheer her. It’s terribly martyred situation when you tried very hard but ever failed.The situation becomes like she is farther off from heaven now.

Sometimes,when the situation goes at the level of exasperation,a girl starts crying in front of her parents,this is a very rare situation,it happens only when she is uncontrollable with her feelings and emotions. She starts arguing unproariously,but in this kinda situation also,instead of consoling her,parents say that! Yes you have become so big that you have started to argue with us and they say, stop this all nonsense and focus on your career.Later, she will be always getting taunts for her improper behaviour

No one notices her haggard eyes,how she has proceeded From all the trauma.Everyone sees her hideous behaviour but no one sees her pain from what she is going through. She has always given an entailment from her family. In such conditions,she distances herself from her family and starts getting too close with herself and her friends,she becomes much puissant that her parents and family members words are no more painful for her.

Whenever your parents words ruffle up your spirits, I would like to tell all the girls that force your heart and nerve and sinew.Don’t let your emotions, feelings and thoughts come out of your heart.

So my dear lovely girls,you are brave enough to endure the cruelty of this world,so don’t give up. Chase your dreams,always pray to god,never take any wrong step due to such useless things.

Our aim is just to lead a happy and successful life. When you die,if someone takes your name then he should praise you and tell that this person was very unique. So be happy,be positive and believe in yourself,have self confidence and faith in yourself.Never ever compare yourself with others,always prioritise yourself and follow only one rule that’s “Me,Myself and I” .

No power in the world can betray you if you believe in god and yourself.

Stay humble,stay strong and become a successful person in your life